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    Misty


    Location:
    Suffolk, Virginia
    About Me Probably the most important thing to know about me is that I am in a polyamorous relationship. My boyfriend, his wife, and I all live together, she's like a sister to me. Her boyfriend lives a few hours north of here and we're all a strange but great family unit. I have a 5 year old son who is my world. His dad and I share custody of him, so the Little Devil goes back and forth between Michigan and Virginia. Okay, more about me.... I love to get lost in a good book. I love the feeling of accomplishment I get when I bake a loaf of bread or batch of cookies. Kneading bread dough is theraputic. I spend way too much time on the interwebs. I could drive from Suffolk, VA to Charlotte, MI with my eyes closed. Okay, not really since I need to be able to see the road, but you know what I mean. I talk too much about pointless crap and not enough about the things that really matter...but don't take my lack of words and assume there is lack of thought or feeling. I am still working on forms of self-expression. I'm a bit introverted, extroverted in some ways, and terribly unfocused. I expend a lot of energy on the why's and not enough on the how's. I like to think of myself as a beautiful mess...perfect imperfection. Perhaps that's conceited. Perhaps it doesn't matter. I am what I am.
    Music Blue October, Three Days Grace, Linkin Park, Nickelback, Dave Matthews Band, Led Zeppelin, Foo Fighters, Evanescence, The Police, Fleetwood Mac, Alanis Morissette, The Brian Setzer Orchestra, Maroon 5, Matchbox Twenty. Ok, I have to admit...my guilty pleasures are Justin Timberlake, Journey and Air Supply....
    Movies the Star Wars trilogies, Gladiator, Wedding Crashers, Tommy Boy, Bridget Jones' Diary, Oceans Eleven and Twelve, Knotting Hill, The Nines, Signs, Shaun of the Dead, Hot Fuzz, Clerks and Clerks 2, Dogma, Spaceballs, Young Frankenstein. Anything that makes me laugh or makes me think...definitely movies that leave me staring at the credits saying, "What the &*%$?!"
    TV The only thing I get to watch on tv anymore is Spongebob. "Oooooohhhh...who lives in a pineapple under the sea..."
    Books I love the Harry Potter series, Outlander series by Diana Gabaldon, anything by Elizabeth Peters and Rosalind Miles. I love, LOVE the Black Jewels Trilogy by Anne Bishop.
    Likes I need coffee, good books and rainy days, sunshine and warmth, to drive fast with the windows down, good music, conversation, respect, love, companionable silence, baking, compassion, the occasional cleansing and theraputic cry, giggles with my sissy, kisses from my love, my baby boy's laugh, warm socks on a cold day, flip-flops in the summer, my best friends.
    Dislikes Hypocrisy, unfairness, stubborness, assholes who drive slow in the fast lane.
    Hobbies Reading, tarot, cooking, baking, intarwebz
    Vices Smoking, sex.
    Virtues Sex? Umm...I'm understanding, compassionate and logical.

    More Soaps

    Friday, July 18, 2008, 09:06 AM [General]

    Aaaaannnd....a few more.  All made with goats milk base.  We have another pan of cinnamon, nutmeg and allspice soap setting up, so pics of that to come tomorrow.

    1. One ounce slices of oatmeal, honey, molasses and one ounce slices of lavender.



    2. One ounce "cupcakes" of oatmeal, honey, molasses; lavender; mint; and lavender mint.



    3. One ounce samples of oatmeal, honey, molasses with fleur de lis.



    4. 4-5 ounce bars of lavender mint.

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    Strawberry Cream Cake

    Friday, July 18, 2008, 09:02 AM [General]

    Goats milk base with strawberry extract and vanilla extract.  A cream colored layer (the normal base color) and a pink layer on top.  It smells delicious!

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    Heathen's Hearth

    Thursday, July 17, 2008, 10:22 AM [General]

    We decided to make some oatmeal honey and molassas, lavender, and mint soaps last night.  All are made using melt and pour goats milk base and I can proudly say the soap made last night is all natural without any added coloring or fragrance.  Oh wait...we did add a bit of honey almond fragrance to the oatmeal honey and molassas, but I can't honestly smell it....next time I think we will skip it.

    None of the soaps are overpowering in scent...it's very subtle and I like that.  I used the honey, molassas and oatmeal this morning in the shower and it was great.  The oatmeal was ground fine enough that there weren't any big chunks, but it was still a bit exfoliating.

    I haven't tried the lavender yet, but it smells divine.  I think I'll be giving my boy a bar of this to use in his baths...it may sooth and calm the little devil.

    Amy and I washed our hands with some of the mint soap that was left in the measuring cup.  You can actually feel the coolness and almost tingling on your skin from the mint.  I can't wait to try a bar of this in the shower one morning.  Invigorating.

    As you can see in the pictures, we used some of our molds and they turned out really well.  I am going to be buying a larger pan mold today if I can find one on ebay, that way we can do hand cut slices which seems a bit more "homemade" and rustic to me.  

    Oatmeal, Honey, and Molassas:




    Lavender:




    Mint:


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    letter to my boy

    Tuesday, July 15, 2008, 10:00 AM [General]

    One of Bainy's questions of the day was "Give one bit of advice in general, something you would tell your daughter (even if you don't have one yet, or don't plan on having kids at all.)"

    Well, I don't have a daughter, so I directed it to my son:

    Don't be afraid of your emotions.  Happiness, sadness, anger, elation, fear, jealousy...they can't nor should they be avoided.  They are all part of life and while sometimes difficult, what would life be without emotion?  An empty canvas.  A book without words.  But do not let your emotions control you...control your emotions.  The strong can learn to feel them and retain fuction of their brains at the same time.  Logic is important.  

    Respect and obey the law and authority, but don't let anyone, an individual or society in general, tell you what you can and can't dream, accomplish, or be.  Don't be afraid to go against the grain or the norm.  In doing that, people will apply labels to you.  If there is anything I have learned in my life, it's don't let others define you.  Only you have the inner knowledge of YOU.  If any labels are applied to you, apply them yourself and don't be afraid when doesn't fit you anymore.  Change is constant and people ever-evolving.

    Most of all...be yourself.  Whomever that is on any given day.  And remember, I love you always.

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